Saturday, May 29, 2010
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Thursday, May 27, 2010
Christina Pluhar - Lu Gattu la sonava la zampogna (2004)
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
DW GRIFFITH WHAT SHALL WE DO WITH OUR OLD
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Cheating Spouses Leave Evidence Behind - How To Follow The Adultery Clues to Find Your Answers
The cell phone is ringing at an odd hour... again. What makes matters worse is that your spouse grabs the cell phone and wanders off to a private area to speak quietly - so you can't hear. It's driving you crazy... WHO is calling? Is your spouse having an affair?
Out of desperation you sneak through your spouse's cell phone while they are in the shower. You scroll though the recent calls list. All of your spouses contacts and friends are clearly labeled by names - names you know. However, there is this one unidentified cell phone number that keeps recurring and the times match those odd moments that raised the red flags.
You write the unknown cell phone number down and put your spouses cell phone back exactly as you found it while the questions and fears dance in your head - and in your heart.
Could it be? Is your spouse cheating on you? This unknown cell phone number you have clutched in your hand may very well hold the answer.
Advances in modern technology, such as cell phones and email, make it easier than ever for extramarital affairs to happen - and to not only continue, but to thrive. Because email accounts and cell phones are considered "personal space", we tend to respect our spouses privacy and not pry into these devices. That is, until the warning bells go off and we feel possessed to look to regain our own sanity. Wondering if your spouse is cheating is hell...knowing for sure one way or the other is power.
Now that you have this unknown cell phone number in your possession, what do you do with it?
It is naturally tempting to confront the spouse with this evidence. Do not do this! Your spouse won't admit anything and fact is, you really don't trust them right now anyway.
Trust yourself. Trust your gut instinct and regain your power in this situation.
Things to watch for:
Start paying closer attention to change in daily habits in your spouseWatch for unexplained and unusual charges on credit cardsMonitor your cell phone bill. Not just phone numbers, but times and duration of length of the callsOddly, a lack of eye contact from your spouse can be a big tell. Guilt is a killerWhen your spouse comes home from a long day at work, is he/she freshly showered?Is your spouse oddly happy suddenly? new relationships have that effectNow, that cell phone number - what to do with it? Should you simply call it and see who answers? No. This will do nothing to arm you with facts that you need, and you deserve, right now.
Find out who that cell phone number belongs to with the use of a reverse lookup tool online. Public records are available online. They are 100% legal to search and your search is completely confidential and discreet. No one will ever know your performed a reverse lookup unless you tell them. These reverse searches can also be performed when all you have is a basic email address to go on. The internet is a valuable - and discreet - tool. Use it to your advantage and find out what is happening in your life. Knowledge will give you power to take any necessary steps.
Monday, May 24, 2010
Telling Kids About Divorce? Avoid These Mistakes
Getting psyched up to tell your children about your pending divorce
-- or separation? Not sure what to say? When to say it? How to
say it? What to expect after the conversation? What to do next?
How do deal with your special circumstances? What therapists,
mediators, attorneys, clergy and other professionals suggest you do
and don't do to make things better all around? Well, you're not
alone.
Having the "divorce talk" with a child you love is one of the
toughest conversations you'll ever have. Shouldn't you be prepared?
Professionals all agree on some of the most common mistakes parents
make when bringing up divorce or separation. These include:
* asking children to bear the weight of making decisions or
choosing sides
* failing to remind children that none of this is in any way their
fault
* forgetting to emphasize that Mom and Dad will still always be
their Mom and Dad -- even after divorce!
* confiding adult details to children in order to attract their
allegiance or sympathy
* neglecting to repeatedly remind children that they are safe,
innocent and very much loved
* failing to explain clearly that everything is going to be okay!
These are just some of the most common messages that parents fail
to convey because they're just not prepared -- and most probably
quite scared!
If you're about to tackle this tough conversation -- or you know
someone who is - there's help you can depend on to simplify the
process. Don't wing it unprepared. You wouldn't go on vacation
or plan a party without advanced preparation. Why tackle one of
the most important and emotionally charged talks you'll ever have
with your children without giving it just as much - if not more -
thought and attention?
If you're not sure what to say and how to say it in age-appropriate
language, there are many resources available to help you. Therapists
and mediators provide excellent personal guidance. Collaborative
divorce attorneys (those who specialize in creating non-adversarial
divorce solutions) can be of great assistance at this time. So can
clergy, school Guidance Counselors and parenting experts. There are
many articles and books written on the subject as well.
One digital guidebook that was just launched on the internet provides
a unique approach through the creation of a personalized family
storybook - prepared in advance - with photos and fill-in-the-blanks
templates. To learn more about How Do I Tell the Kids about the
Divorce? A Create-a-Storybook(TM) Guide to Preparing Your Children
- with Love! visit http://www.howdoitellthekids.com
However you approach this challenging conversation, be prepared.
Understand the effects - both emotionally and psychologically - this
news can have on your children, and learn how to avoid the common
mistakes parents can make when they haven't done their homework
in advance. You and your children can survive -- and even thrive after
divorce. Think before you leap and give your family a sound foundation
on which to face the changes ahead with security, compassion and love.
Sunday, May 23, 2010
Parenting and Living With Your Adult Children
Our family, as well as many other hundreds of families across this country is welcoming home our college graduated children during this season. What a milestone our children have accomplished, a college degree. As the car is packed up with the contents of our children's possessions over the last four years and we head back home nothing has been said but it is clear that going back and living the way the family use to live before the child left for school is not an option. Parenting adult children while they live at home will take a mind shift from both parties and some healthy respect as well.
When your recent college graduate comes home and the honeymoon stage of having them home again starts to recede is a perfect time to set down and talk about the boundaries that you will have with your adult child. Privacy is a huge hurtle for many parents to make in this adjustment of the family dynamic. Remembering that our children did not share every single thing that went on in their lives with us when they were away at college they have developed an independence that we as parents should be thankful for.
There are still the rules of the house and it does not matter the age of the person living there, the rules apply to all. The values and morals that we have always had have not changed we are still a non smoking household and we do not have alcohol in the house. And we all have chores to do to keep our household running functionally. The lessons learned during the high school years still apply. Each person is responsible for themselves and their own messes. We are finding that our adult children have no problem fulfilling the expectations we have, we as the parents just need to let them know what those expectations are.
Perhaps the biggest challenge to having your adult children living with you during this time is you as the parent allowing you child to be a grown up. Encouraging them with their decisions but not to take control of their lives. To be a support system but not to be their long term financial backers, they need to find a job; times are tough out there for highly educated people with no experience in their fields. That is ok; they have a place to live, food to eat until they do land a job. But finding a career is the name of the game of being an adult so there is no other option.
So on your way of bringing home your grown child from college enjoy the achievements and memories of that time. When you arrive home set up a time to talk with your children, letting them know things that you are thinking and expecting out of them. Ask them if they have ideas on how to make this transition workable as well. Listen to each other; give privacy to each person as well. Be an encouragement to one another and provide a supportive atmosphere that will give time for finding a job. Parenting a grown child is a challenging task for dad and mom but the relationship that you can build during this time will make all the challenges worth it in the end.
Saturday, May 22, 2010
Yahweh, Brahma versus God or Parbrahm. - Part 2
Friday, May 21, 2010
Do Hanson Ka Jodaa - Full Episode - EP#12 - 2nd February
Thursday, May 20, 2010
DW GRIFFITH'S THE MOTHER AND THE LAW PART 1
Love Letter CH. 4
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Valley of the Bird Singer
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Disillusioned With American Women? Discover Beautiful Russian Women!
If you have grown tired of the exhaustion that is often the result of dating American women, it is time to discover other breeds of women who can challenge the standards set by the women you have dated in the past. Beautiful Russian women offer something completely different, and many men have already discovered that there is something better out there. A relationship does not have to include a lot of drama, mind games, and deception. In fact, no serious, committed relationship should include any of those things!
While there are very beautiful American women who men fall all over, most of them are so stuck on themselves that they are difficult to get along with long term. The demanding attitude of many Americans who feel they deserve everything to be handed to them has gotten old with many men, and that may also include you. When you are tired of trying to please a women who seem perpetually unhappy, you need to search out beautiful Russian women who can make you happy with less the hassle!
Russian women have the old fashioned values that used to be a given with American women. While many Americans no longer want to have children, let alone stay home and take care of them, it is not difficult to find beautiful Russian women who desire this lifestyle more than anything else. It is not that they have nothing else to do in their own country, as many of the give up successful careers in order to get married and form a family elsewhere. Russian women just have traditional family values and they really want to start a family, care for their home, and keep their husbands happy.
Sit across the table with many single American women and openly admit that you want to have a large family or desire a wife who will stay home until the kids are grown, and most of them will bolt immediately. It has grown to be almost a sin among American women to focus more on family than their own career goals. Yet with Russian women this is not so. While many Russian women have career aspirations, they are also very into having a family and maintaining a happy household.
In other areas, Russian women often surpass American women as well. Many are better educated than the typical American woman, and a lot of them have their own career expertise as well. These women may surpass other women when it comes to their knockout beauty, but the have the brains to stimulate you in other areas as well.
When you take on a beautiful Russian woman as your bride, you are getting much more than a mother for your children. You are receiving the gift of a woman who prides herself on cooking and caring for all of your needs. It is not uncommon for beautiful Russian women considering marriage to ask for pictures of your kitchen. This may seem odd if you are accustomed to dating Americans who would rather hire a cook or go out to a restaurant than cook, but for Russian women it is essential that they know how to feed their family. Your Russian bride will be spending a lot of her time in that kitchen!
The actual differences between Russian and American women are best experienced for yourself. Some men find it unbelievable that they did not find this desirable alternative much earlier in their life!
Monday, May 17, 2010
Marriage Advice For Women - How to Make Your Husband Love You More
There's a lot of marriage advice for women that focuses on what you should be doing if your husband is falling out of love with you. Some people suggest that you should demand he go to marriage counseling with you, while others believe that the best approach is to just give in to the inevitable and seek a divorce. Ending your marriage does not have to be the only solution to this type of issue. There are concrete things any woman can do if she feels that her husband is losing his adoration for her.
Some of the best marriage advice for women suggests that a wife should focus on herself if she feels her husband is becoming emotionally distant. This may seem a little odd, since it's the husband who has lost interest. However, often men find less excitement in their marriage over time. In some cases this is because the wife has taken to following the same predictable routine day after day. If you make an effort to improve yourself as a person your husband will sit up and take notice. You can do this any number of ways including taking a new career path, investing time in some classes or even taking a mini-vacation with some girlfriends. If you show your husband that you are putting yourself first and foremost, he'll fall into the same mindset.
You also need to make a conscious effort to not take your husband for granted. Often a man's feelings will change if he feels that his wife doesn't appreciate him. Strive to make a point of telling your husband how much he means to you and how much you value him. This is one piece of marriage advice for women that should never be ignored. Your husband can only truly love you if he likes who he is in the relationship. If you make him feel badly about himself, he'll feel less close to you. Work on complimenting him and ensuring that he knows how much he really does mean to you.
Sunday, May 16, 2010
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Saturday, May 15, 2010
Friday, May 14, 2010
Solve Your Arm Sleep Problems
Have you ever woken up in the morning to have a nagging tingling sensation in one of your body parts? Arm sleep problems are fairly common. They occur when a person wakes up and notices that one of their body parts feels numb and immobile. What's going on? What causes Arm sleep?
Arm sleep, this strange tingling sensation isn't uncommon, but it is uncomfortable. It's frustrating to wake up in the middle of the night, roll over, and realize you can't move one of your arms. The icky sensation gets stronger as your body part "wakes up".
Arm sleep usually occurs after you've been sleeping on your arm for a long time. It is especially common in people who sleep on their sides or people who fold their arms behind their head and then fall asleep. Since your arm was squeezed so tightly for such a long time, the pressure makes it hard for your brain to send impulses. It as if your brain has temporarily lost communication with that body part.
During Arm sleep, arteries can also be squeezed tightly. This means no nutrients are making their way to those body cells. This makes the cells behave oddly. What does this mean for you? It means you experience unpleasant sensations like Arm sleep. This lapse in impulses causes your arm not to operate properly. The numbness, tingling, and odd sensation are your arm's way of telling you that it's a bit out of sorts.
Arm sleep all boils down to the issue of an interruption of transmission between your brain and your arm. Nerve cells may not properly be sending impulses. You may feel odd, but it really poses no danger unless circulation is cut off for a very long extended period of time. The feelings associated with Arm sleep are simply a good cue that it's time to turn over and go to seep in another position.
When you experience arm sleep and your arm " wakes up ", you usually tingle first then feel a burning sensation before you revert to normal. This is because your nerve fibers are returning back to normal. Sometimes, it takes a little time.
One thing you can do to possibly ward off Arm sleep is to invest in a side sleeper pillow. If you sleep on your arm, you're always going to be a candidate for Arm sleep. This is because when we sleep on our sides, our shoulders and arms always seem to get in the way. A side sleeper pillow compensates for your body parts, allowing for proper body alignment when you sleep.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
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Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Top Five Traditional Bachelorette Party Games
Bachelorette parties can be some pretty wild events with strippers, bawdy games and lots of alcohol. Sometimes, though, the bride wishes to indulge in such an event only with her closest friends but wants to have a more traditional party for a larger selection of people. Or, sometimes the bride simply is not comfortable with such a wild time and wants to stick to a more sedate, traditional party. These can be just as fun as the bawdier counterparts but some of the games may need to be adjusted slightly to account for the different audience.
For some traditional bachelorette party ideas, look to the top five:
Dress Design - Choose some teams, having at least two but there can be more if there are a lot of people in attendance. Each team chooses a bride model and the rest are designers. The idea is to create a bridal gown and dress the model in it. The trick, though, is the only material you have to design the gown is toilet paper! When complete have a bridal fashion show and take lots of pictures.
Secrets to Marriage Success - The hostess should hand out index cards or decorative pieces of paper and pens. Each person writes some words of wisdom on the paper on how to have a happy, peaceful and harmonious marriage. The advice can be sincere and heartfelt or even funny. The advice should be read aloud and collected by the hostess where she can compile it into a keepsake album as a gift to the bride.
Treasure Hunt/Scavenger Hunt - The hostess should gather several wedding related items to hide throughout the house or outside. The guests will break up into teams and each will be given a list of clues. The person has to use the clues to find the items. Whichever team gets all the items fastest wins a prize.
Ugliest picture - This is a fun exercise but it takes a little planning on the part of the hostess. The hostess can add this into the invitations so that each guest knows what to expect. Each person has to find the ugliest picture of the groom they can find. Maybe they have one while he was sleeping or posing in an odd manner or caught unawares by the camera. This game is especially fun for relatives of the groom who may have some great candid shots or embarrassing baby pictures. The bride then has to show off her intended for all to see.
Poem Writing Contest - This can either be pre arranged or worked on at the party. It can be done individually, with partners or with teams. Everyone writes an original poem for the bride. Some who are especially sentimental or romantic or who are great writers may compose some lovely work. Others may come up with funny limericks or laughable ditties. Either way, it's a great way to express emotions about the bride, groom, the couple, the marriage or love in general. The poems can be gathered and bound into a keepsake album for the bride to have as a memento of the occasion.
Striking Back at Harmful Competitiveness
There's no 'I' in team.
I talked with a friend recently who's having a hassle with their overly-competitive supervisor. It seems that (for whatever reason) this supervisor is threatened by the grasp their subordinate has on their role; good performance is being punished--the supervisor might be thinking that doing well is perhaps a license for showing the boss up?
It also seems odd that my friend has started to watch their back, not knowing what angle the supervisor might begin to strike from next. It's a competitive environment not conducive to the best outcomes, professionally or personally.
There's no shortage of competitive people in life is there? These people, who act like enemies, can come from our very workplaces, and even our families! Everything suddenly becomes an issue of win/lose and win/win collaborative efforts go out the window, and so for that matter does trust. Fear is accorded a present high value in the relationship and fairness is no longer the gauge; aggression is.
How do we contend in these environments? How do we adequately fight back, especially when we feel we don't want to fight and we just want to get on with everyone?
There's little to be gained from competing the way others do. If we did this we'd be competing with the enemy's preferred armoury and that would get us next to nowhere. We're still no closer to finding a good way out of the mess.
The answer lies in defusing the situation of any competitive advantage. We do this by changing the rules; not the rules of the game, but how we play.
*We don't fight, but we wisely wait patiently to do what only we need to do.
*We keep a level head and manage our emotions skilfully.
*We don't resort to email and we try not to engage in lengthy discussion. Small doses face-to-face does the trick.
*We leave plenty of time to reflect over issues.
*We try to keep things very simple.
*We play on a level field, on neutral territory, where possible.
*We stay calm and don't panic.
*We forgive ourselves (and the other person) if emotions do get frayed. We make quick amends.
*We understand it is they who feel more threatened (somehow) than we do. Fear is the basic cause of most aggression.
*We seek people--friendly people--to talk out our issues, so we at least have sounding boards and modes of expression in our corner.
*We place ourselves in a fair situation.
For all these things demonstrate we have some sense of proactive and responsible control over the situation at hand--and this is not to be underestimated. We've made our own rules and we're even "managing" those above us when we do these things. Everyone wins. That's the hope in any event. For, if everyone wins, we do too.
© 2009 S. J. Wickham.
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Why a woman cannot teach the Moral Laws but become a Saint?
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Monday, May 10, 2010
Signs of an Unfaithful Spouse - 5 Secret Formulas to Catch Unfaithful Spouse
There are many signs that your spouse may be unfaithful to you. However, you can not always catch every signal they may send. Here are 5 major signs that your spouse is cheating. If you happen to notice any of the following signs then you should investigate further because chances are your spouse may be cheating.
1. New Behavior
If your spouse starts working out more or becoming interested in something he never showed interest in before then that could be a sign of cheating. New behaviors are often the result of the changes they are making for the person they are having the affair with. They may start to become interested in things that you never knew about before. Usually this behavior is passed off as just being a new hobby or with some other excuse to deflect the accusation that an affair may be the reason.
2. Odd Behavior
Along the lines of new behavior is odd behavior. If your spouse starts to worry about their appearance before they go to run a simple errand and they never did before then that may be an odd behavior that signals an affair. Odd behaviors usually point to the fact that they are nervous because they are about to go meet their lover. Watch for them because they are usually quite easy to spot.
3. Emotional Distance
When a spouse suddenly pulls away emotionally you may want to suspect cheating. Unless there is some underlying reason that you can verify, emotional distance is often a major sign of an affair. It is usually quite easy to spot, too.
4. Change in Priorities
If your spouse starts to rearrange their priorities then that could be a sign of cheating. Things like choosing work over family or losing interest in hobbies are signs of priority changes.
These things happen because the strain of trying to keep a hidden relationship and juggle two lives is hard. Other things tend to lose their importance.
5. A Gut Feeling
If you feel in your gut that your spouse is cheating then chances are they are. Your gut feeling is linked to your subconscious mind which does not filter the signs like your conscious mind does. It is a good bet that if you feel it in your gut that it is true.
Now that you have these 5 arsenals in you your pocket, use them wisely. Take the time to study and apply the suggestion made and all the help we have for you.
Saturday, May 8, 2010
Divorce and Separation - A Child's Perspective
It is always the children that suffer the most when a marriage breaks down and separation or divorce is imminent. Children of divorcing parents often witness arguments even rows and this has a strong effect on any child. Children do not understand why parents argue and cannot relate to rows during the build up to a divorce or seperation. They become confused and insecure and their life seems as if it is in turmoil. Here we explain some of the issues from a child's perspective.
Children do not understand why parents no longer love each other and cannot stay together. Prior to divorce or separation they have only known that happy caring family environment which they were brought into. To them their world has been turned upside down and they cannot see why. If parents loved each other in the past, then why can't they love one another in the future.
Children often believe that they could be the reason for a break up in a marriage which can result in long term damaging guilt complexes. A child's character often changes during divorce or separation when things are not normal at home. Children can be very sensitive to the emotional environment.
During divorce or separation many children become disruptive at school, argumentative at home and some even go into a recluse. This can be a very lonely time, particularly if they are an only child. Their friends are not going through what they are emotionally. Hence they feel that they are the odd one out all of a sudden and do not know how to cope with the situation. All they want is for their life to go back to a normal family life where parents don't argue and row as it may have been before the stress of divorce or seperation.
When a couple decide that divorce is the only option and separation is a necessity, children are again the ones that it effects the most. They are told that they will be with one parent one day and the other the next. How are they supposed to form any kind of routine ? This can often result in children not sleeping in their own beds as they prefer the comfort and security of being with a parent. Children often feel insecure and are most vulnerable even at school when they listen to their friends planning family outings and holidays.
Children of divorcing parents can feel as though they are going to miss out on family events and get togethers. During a divorce each parent makes separate commitments to a child and It is important that when arrangements have been made by the parent or parents that they keep to them as the child will feel let down and resent a parent for not being there for them after they had said they would. Reliability and punctuality are of utmost importance to a child. They will clock watch and expect to see you on time and have been looking forward to spending time with you wherever you decide to take them. In a child's eyes it's you they want to be with and it's your time spent with them that's most important to them even after the divorce or separation.
Divorce can bring our the worst in people. Never run down the other parent in front of your child. This creates resentment and bad feelings all round. Also, never think that you can buy a child if you are late or fail to follow through with your promise. Although you may think that you are doing good for buying your child a toy to impress them - think again - keep that special toy for a birthday or Christmas present. Your time to be with them is much more valuable than a toy. Even after the divorce or separation they will remember where you took them and what a fantastic time you both had rather than a toy. They will talk about your outing or time together for days because it meant so much to them to see you and have you all to themselves. Quality time rather than quantity of toys is far more important to a child.
These are just some of the issues children face when parents are going through the throws of a divorce or separation and every attempt should be made by divorcing parents to limit or reduce these adverse affects upon children.
Friday, May 7, 2010
Does Your Ex Still Have Feelings For You?
This is a very popular question that several people who have recently broken up ask themselves or their close friends. The simple answer is that you have to think about several things to determine if they still have feelings for you. Following you will find some situations that may hint that your ex still has feelings for you.
Does your ex call you with random or odd questions? If this is the case then it is likely that they may still have feelings for you. Why else would they be calling you to ask you how many calories are in peanut butter if they did not want to talk to you. What they are doing is trying to talk with the hopes that a date or meeting may come out of it. They figure that the more they talk to you the better chance of meeting up.
Does your ex call you on your birthday or other important days in your life? This can be yet another indicator that your ex still has feelings for you. If they didn't care then they wouldn't take time out of their day to give you a call. The fact that they remember shows that they still have some feelings for you.
These are only a few of the common signs to look for if you are wondering if your ex still likes you. There are so many more possibilities you can look for. The best thing to do when trying to get back with an ex is to have a plan.
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Thursday, May 6, 2010
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Feng Shui's Cosmic Blueprint For Health, Wealth and Happiness
We all know that our environment can affect us positively or negatively. We recognize it on the most mundane and obvious levels, such as feeling bad-even frightened-if we're subjected to a dark, damp, dilapidated building. We also know how exhilarating it can feel to be in a sunny, sweet smelling room with breathtaking views. But this could be seen as just a temporary, emotional reaction. Does our environment influence our lives and well-being, even our financial potential or chance for marriage, in a long term and predictable way? The answer is yes, according to the ancient Chinese natural earth science, popularly referred to as "feng shui." Feng Shui literally means "wind-water," and these words are a catch phrase or consolidation of a whole concept: energy which dissipates in the wind, gathers at the location of water.
The basic principles of feng shui maintain that:
• We are affected by our immediate interior and exterior surroundings in predictable ways
• Unseen forces (called ch'i) or air currents can be manipulated by our choice of furnishings, the color scheme of a room, its architecture, as well as landscaping
• Those forces can alter events and circumstances in our lives
• We can even have a unique relationship with a home or office, distinct from someone else sharing that same space, based on our birth date.
THE BEDROOM
This is the most important room in any home because we spend a majority of our lives in this one spot. The only other room that can compete with the bedroom is an office that someone might literally sit in for eight hours per day. Here are some basic feng shui guidelines for the bedroom:
1. The shape of the room should be a stable square or rectangular shape. If the room has an odd shape, then try to position furnishings in a way to help square-out the shape.
2. The room should not be overly large because that can undermine feelings of coziness and protection that are desirable for sleeping.
3. The ceilings should be flat for the smoothest flow of energy in the room.
4. If the ceilings are sloped, then there is a greater chance for sleep disturbances.
5. False ceilings and canopy beds are one way to resolve the sloped ceiling dilemma.
6. Sleeping under exposed beams should be avoided at all cost because the beams create a chaotic boomerang effect that can undermine health. The exact health problem can even be predicted based on where the beam hovers over your body. For example, if you sleep with a large exposed beam hovering over your abdominal region, this could affect your digestion and even your fertility.
7. Avoid sleeping with your head too close to a low, drafty window. This will consistently drain you.
8. Arrange the bed to be out of direct alignment with the room's door. Sleeping directly aligned with the door can cause health problems eventually.
9. Cover up or remove large mirrors in the bedroom. This is a challenging recommendation for many people because mirrored closet doors are so very common. The only way to test out if your mirrors are causing sleeping problems for you is to cover them up for a week or two and see if you feel more rested and calm. Most people do report feeling better.
10. By referring to traditional feng shui books, you can even find out what your best personal sleeping directions are, based on your birth year.
11. Advanced, traditional feng shui can also determine the best colors for a room. It's unique to your specific home and floor plan arrangement.
THE OFFICE
Whether this is a home office or an office within a commercial space, you can also micro-manage this environment to suit your needs and enhance your productivity. Some people use their office to concentrate, while others use their office to hold meetings with business partners, employees, patients or clients. In a commercial work space, you should:
1. Avoid sitting at your desk with your back to the entrance door of the room. Psychologically you will feel very vulnerable and on edge, knowing that people could come into your office from behind you.
2. Avoid sitting with your back to any protruding interior columns or file cabinets that would be pointing towards your back as this can cause back pain.
3. If you have any disturbing views out of your window, mask the bad view with window treatments, partition screens or tall plants.
4. For a windowless office, get yourself some full-spectrum lighting because it will be less tiring than working all day under fluorescent lighting.
5. Put up pictures of landscapes or large mirrors to give the room a feeling of depth or the illusion of more space.
6. Don't go for extreme colors in your carpet, such as hunter green or maroon, unless you have had a traditional feng shui consultation to find out if your individual office needs that much of a certain color (which vibrates a certain element.)
THE ENTRANCE
The main door to your home is referred to as the "mouth" or "ch'i-gate" in feng shui terminology. You pass through this area potentially many times per day and this is one of the main ways that the energies of the outside world enter into your private space.
The main door that you use the most should be:
1. Free of clutter or congestion. It should not be hard to get through this area.
2. There should be plenty of light because dark entry ways can trigger depression and contribute to lethargy. Use artificial light if you cannot bring in enough natural light through a window or skylight.
3. Air currents will move in a straight line unless diverted. If you have a back door or window aligned directly with your entrance door, the house will leak its vital ch'i. The end result is that it is hard for occupants to save their hard earned money. Corrections for this floor plan flaw can vary depending on how much area there is to work with between the entrance and exit points. Pieces of furniture, live plants, water fountains, and partition screens can sometimes be used to help slow down this direct path of ch'i.
4. Likewise, if a main door is aligned directly with a set of stairs, occupants may also have a hard time saving money or their health will be drained.
5. The most challenging entrances are the ones which are congestive because there is a wall too close to the entrance. People who have this kind of entrance will feel halted and stifled in their lives. Covering this wall with a floor to ceiling mirror will help give the illusion that you have more space. This is also a design trick that is used al the time in narrow retail spaces, where one whole wall is mirrored. Health clubs mirror walls, not just so you can see what you look like, but also so they can get away with putting exercise equipment very close to walls without their gym members feeling cramped up in corners.
Although we have outlined some very important basics regarding your bedroom, office, and entrance, the vast body of knowledge which comes from this ancient predictive art can be personalized to your own specific home and work environment. What may be appropriate for one person or business, will not be for another. You can find out more advanced feng shui secrets and solutions when an experienced consultant factors in the age of your home and what compass direction the structure faces. In a way, it is like "astrology for architecture."
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
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Tuesday, May 4, 2010
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Monday, May 3, 2010
Shrek (Movie Review)
A modern-day fairy tale rife with cutting edge humor, Shrek is a computer-animated film for the ages. In the tradition of Disney (the recipient of a number of clever jibes throughout the movie), Dreamworks manages to create a film that adults (and not just parents) will enjoy as much as children. The comedy is clean, witty, and refreshing. The animation is mind-blowing, and the characters are as likeable as any ever created.
The story follows the life of Shrek (voiced by Mike Myers), a green ogre with a friendly disposition who lives in a swamp during medieval times. When ever-so-short, midget nobleman Lord Farquaad (John Lithgow) banishes all local fairy-tale creatures from his land, they are forced to resettle in Shrek's swamp. Shrek, who prefers to live in solitude, sets off, accompanied by a wisecracking mule named Donkey (Eddie Murphy), to find Lord Farquaad and convince him to leave the fairy-tale characters where they belong, and leave his leave his swampland alone. Lord Farquaad agrees to honor Shrek and Donkey's request under one condition. The odd couple must locate the beautiful Princess Fiona (Cameron Diaz) and bring her back to Duloc so that he can marry her (he chooses her as his bride over Snow White and Sleeping Beauty because he wants to become king). Although Princess Fiona is held in a tower guarded by a fire-breathing dragon, the task is one Shrek and Donkey are more than capable of taking on...
Shrek is quite simply of one of the best films of its time. The computer-generated image animation creates a fantastic setting filled with unique, groundbreaking characters. The storyline (basically Beauty and the Beast) is timeless, and the comedy manages to stand on its own in a movie that pushes the outer-boundaries of excellence. Eddie Murphy is at his best playing the Donkey, and Mike Myers may also have put in his best cinematic performance to date. Shrek is one of the few animated films ever made that should be seen by adults who don't have children (in other words, those who otherwise wouldn't bother to see an animated film). So if you haven't seen it, do yourself a favor and give Shrek a try...
Sunday, May 2, 2010
How to Tell If She is Cheating - Important Questions
Why have you allowed yourself to stay this long if you think she may be unfaithful? Don't you want all of this dirty laundry out in the open where it can be dealt with? Are you ready to get your life back? Isn't it time you had answers? You want to know; how to tell if she is cheating, and you deserve to know now!
You never believed her when she came up with the excuse as to why she couldn't be with your family at the holidays. You had a sneaking feeling that something wasn't right. You made all of the excuses to all of your relatives and a part of you hoped you could believe them yourself. But you are past that now. Now it's time to get some answers. Now you need to know how to tell if she is cheating, and you want to know right this minute!
Your friends have probably been talking about her odd behavior recently and it's started to seep into your mind that maybe they're right. Of course, you'll need to know for sure before doing anything drastic but you're finally ready to take that step. You're tired of her last minute excuses as to why she can't come over or meet you when you'd planned a perfect evening together. You're tired of feeling like the only thing you're around for is to get rid of big spiders in the bathroom or be there when she's got the flu. You have too much to offer someone to wait around for her to get her act together. It's time you made your move.
You want to know how to know if she's cheating? Then it's time to contact the experts. It's time to talk with other guys that have been treated like you have and who stopped it and are better for it. You no longer need to feel like the betrayed one; you just get to work, catch her being unfaithful and put an end to these shenanigans before you totally lose your self-respect.