Cheating Spouses Leave Evidence Behind - How To Follow The Adultery Clues to Find Your Answers

The cell phone is ringing at an odd hour... again. What makes matters worse is that your spouse grabs the cell phone and wanders off to a private area to speak quietly - so you can't hear. It's driving you crazy... WHO is calling? Is your spouse having an affair?

Out of desperation you sneak through your spouse's cell phone while they are in the shower. You scroll though the recent calls list. All of your spouses contacts and friends are clearly labeled by names - names you know. However, there is this one unidentified cell phone number that keeps recurring and the times match those odd moments that raised the red flags.

You write the unknown cell phone number down and put your spouses cell phone back exactly as you found it while the questions and fears dance in your head - and in your heart.

Could it be? Is your spouse cheating on you? This unknown cell phone number you have clutched in your hand may very well hold the answer.

Advances in modern technology, such as cell phones and email, make it easier than ever for extramarital affairs to happen - and to not only continue, but to thrive. Because email accounts and cell phones are considered "personal space", we tend to respect our spouses privacy and not pry into these devices. That is, until the warning bells go off and we feel possessed to look to regain our own sanity. Wondering if your spouse is cheating is hell...knowing for sure one way or the other is power.

Now that you have this unknown cell phone number in your possession, what do you do with it?

It is naturally tempting to confront the spouse with this evidence. Do not do this! Your spouse won't admit anything and fact is, you really don't trust them right now anyway.

Trust yourself. Trust your gut instinct and regain your power in this situation.

Things to watch for:

Start paying closer attention to change in daily habits in your spouseWatch for unexplained and unusual charges on credit cardsMonitor your cell phone bill. Not just phone numbers, but times and duration of length of the callsOddly, a lack of eye contact from your spouse can be a big tell. Guilt is a killerWhen your spouse comes home from a long day at work, is he/she freshly showered?Is your spouse oddly happy suddenly? new relationships have that effect

Now, that cell phone number - what to do with it? Should you simply call it and see who answers? No. This will do nothing to arm you with facts that you need, and you deserve, right now.

Find out who that cell phone number belongs to with the use of a reverse lookup tool online. Public records are available online. They are 100% legal to search and your search is completely confidential and discreet. No one will ever know your performed a reverse lookup unless you tell them. These reverse searches can also be performed when all you have is a basic email address to go on. The internet is a valuable - and discreet - tool. Use it to your advantage and find out what is happening in your life. Knowledge will give you power to take any necessary steps.