1. Your Wife Wants You To Show Her Love - Every woman wants her husband to love her and show her love but wishes that you know it not. Reason? Husbands tend to pretend a lot to their wives, acting scripts that a not written by the heart. Many husbands show their wives love because they see it do the whole work on their wives. Cheating husbands take advantage of a woman's vulnerability to manipulate and twist their will so that it falls in line with what they want. Since manipulating people for one's own selfish desire is wrong and contradicts God's commandment to love one another (John 15:12-17), husbands should learn to do things that will make their wives know they love them naturally - buying them gifts, taking them out, spending quality time with them and always reminding them of how much they love them and in so doing they will be obeying the will of God (Eph. 5:25).
2. Your Wife Needs You To Be Supportive - A supportive husband is every woman's desire. Women do not go on showing their husbands that they desire their support. To many of them, it makes them feel cheap. Husbands should not compromise their support for their wives. They should encourage them to try to better themselves either spiritually, intellectually, emotionally or physically. Husbands should help their wives to conquer their tears. They should also support their wives' goals and help them maintain focus and accomplish their dreams, not until they demand for it.
3. Your Wife Needs A Companion And Not Just A Husband - Your wife needs you to be a companion to her. Husbands should make themselves available always to their wives. Some men make their wives feel ignorant or illogical when they voice their opinion and this is hurting, rather they should listen to them and help to explore their inner minds. Husbands should share the thoughts of their wives, their feelings, fears and concerns and plan the future together. As a husband, duty demands that you get involved in your wife's day-to-day activities so that she can be proud to have you as a companion.
4. Your Wife Wants You To Be Sensitive - Women want their husbands to be sensitive to their needs and feelings. Husbands should not be harsh to their wives in public; they should not criticize them in front of others or behind them. Men should learn to spend quality time with their wives and children and always remember to ask them about their day. Every husband should always let his wife know when he's going to be late. A sensitive man can get the best out of his woman. It is very difficult for a wife to confront a man with this fact, unless she's prepared for a fight.
5. Your Wife Wants To Be Appreciated - Every woman wants to be appreciated by her husband. No man needs to be reminded about this, and so the woman does not owe it as a duty to remind her man about it. Husbands should frequently compliment their wives and thank them for all the good things that they do that make them feel loved. Every husband should learn to appreciate his wife for keeping the home, preparing the good meals and taking care of the children. Husbands should always appreciate their wives' appearance by telling them how good they look from time to time.
6. Your Wife Wants You To Be Well Dressed - Women want their husband's to be always well dressed and presentable. Men should learn to dress in colours that match and not just wearing all sorts of colours. They should dress appropriately for different occasions. Husbands should get a good body spray and avoid smelling sweat cause, this puts their woman off. Every woman is proud to show off her well-dressed husband.
7. Your Wife Wants A Responsible And Reliable Husband - Every woman wants a man that is responsible, yet it looks very odd for her to suggest it to her husband. She wishes you never noticed that she desires it. Since it is the duty of husbands to bear the responsibility of the home, every man should be able to provide the basic needs for household so as to earn the respect of his wife.
8. Women Want Their Men To Be Affectionate - Every woman wants her husband to be affectionate. Husbands should not withhold their affections in public places because it makes it seem as though they are ashamed to be with their wives. Men should be caring, nurturing and sometimes, playful. Wives want to be treated like absolute treasures. Men should not shut off their women by watching too much TV or reading newspapers.
9. Women Expect Their Men To Be God-Fearing - Wives want their husbands to pray for and with them. They want them to go to Church together, have family devotion or Bible study together, etc. Husbands should be the spiritual leaders of their household (Hebrew 3:4).
10. Your Woman Wants You To Be Romantic - A romantic man is the dream of every woman. Women want men that can sweep them off their feet. Men should learn how to tell their wives how much they adore them, as often as possible; give them surprises, such as gifts, outings and romantic notes; hug them sometimes, not just for the sake of hugging, but as a sign of their love for them. However, every man should discover or ask his wife about her sexual needs and be ready to fulfill them. Husbands should remember to celebrate anniversaries, birthdays and other special occasions. A romantic man will surely bring out the woman in his wife.
Sure, there's much more your wives wish you knew not about them. Those things that can make them feel inferior before your presence or those things can jeopardize the joyful moments in their relationship with you. To grow into a man of love (the toast of your wife), every man should make the Word of God the final authority in his life. In addition to that, husbands should learn to get closer to their wives to discover what they like, so as to have a blissful marriage.
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